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Teaching War-weary Teens at Peace Campby Mary Beth Coudalphotos by Jane Schreibman |
| The teens waded knee-high in icy water. Sounds of stalactites dripping and toads jumping surrounded them. When the end of the tunnel became unexplorable, they sat on wet rocks and counted off, giggling a little as they shouted their numbers in this foreign language, English. With all the flashlights turned off, darkness enfolded them--a darkness that seemed timeless and somehow very safe. This was the same cave in High Falls, New York, that 150 years ago had sheltered a woman and her child as they ran from slavery. |
![]() Peace Campers relax at Camp Epworth in High Falls, New York. |
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In August 1998, the teenagers were getting away from an ongoing war in Abkhazia and Georgia in the Caucasus region of southwest Asia. An organization called Children's Creative Response to Conflict (CCRC) had brought them to the United States for a month to study nonviolence at two United Methodist camps in New York: Epworth in High Falls and Quinipet in Shelter Island. The CCRC was founded by Quakers in New York City in 1972 to teach conflict-resolution skills. Its philosophy is based on the Quaker belief that there is goodness in every person. The camp was originally to be called Crisis and Conflict Resolution Camp, but the name was shortened to Peace Camp. Twenty youths aged 13 to 18--10 from each warring side--attended the camp. The Abkhazians sent only boys as their representatives. All of these Abkhazian boys had lost their fathers in the war. All 10 Georgian kids were refugees, four of them being girls whose fathers were killed in the war. Anna Ohanyan and Rui-Ling King were two of the 12 counselors for the 20 kids at the Peace Camp. One day halfway through the month-long camp, I talked to these counselors, met a few of the kids, and followed them around the Peace Camp at Epworth. Anna was from Romania and explained a goal of the Peace Camp: "To teach peace as a language, peace as a culture. They have been at war so long." On this day at lunchtime, the kids ate pizza, complained about it, and then tried to get more. They were unanimous in their displeasure with American food in general. "They want you to know they don't like the food at all. They don't like the food here at camp and they don't like it anywhere else either," said Julia Dizenko, a college-aged counselor from Romania, who was the translator for a group of boys. Singing and Dancing TogetherAfter pizza, two Georgian girls took the stage and did a short folk dance--each with one arm arched overhead and legs making small scissorlike movements in the air. The girls danced to a tape of Eastern European music, circling each other, then circling in place. At the end, the campers from the United States, who attended Epworth alongside the Abkhazian and Georgian kids, applauded enthusiastically. Then the boys from Abkhazia, members of a folk-singing group that appeared on a very famous television program in the Abkhaz region, took the stage. Their voices rang out as if in a vast Gothic cathedral, not in a camp dining hall. And while they sang their folk song, one of the boys did something unexpected. The boy came off the stage, grabbed the hand of one of the Georgian dancers, and led her on stage to join him. She and the other Georgian girl danced again and joined in the singing. For that little while, they were just a row of kids singing--showing off, goofing around, being kids. They were not enemies anymore. Rui-Ling whispered to me: "I'm blown away! This is the highlight of my summer. This is a tremendous thing. These countries have never mixed. The fact that they're doing cultural things together--I'm blown away right now!" Up until that pizza lunch, the two groups had always sung and danced separately. Anna, who translated from Russian into English, saw a subtle change in the wording of the songs the children sang. At the onset, the children of each group sang nationalist songs with only their own country mentioned. However, as the weeks wore on, they began changing the words to unify the nations. They began to sing of the Caucasus region, not just Georgia or Abkhazia. Classes and ActivitiesBoth Abkhazia and Georgia have their own languages. The counselors originally feared that the kids wouldn't want to speak their common language, Russian, because it was the language of their oppressors. But this was not a problem. What was a problem was the schedule the CCRC had prepared for the campers. The teens were emphatic in their displeasure with feeling overscheduled and having to camp out at Epworth. After calling 50 to 60 hotels in the region, the CCRC finally put the kids up in a motel and bused them to Epworth during the day. One counselor speculated that camping was too much like living in a refugee camp. |
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Free-form, experiential group projects replaced classes when the counselors discovered that the kids from this war-torn region had very little tolerance for or experience at working within a structure. Their classroom experience was limited. Their schools had been shut down by the war. The CCRC had planned for the kids to study conflict resolution, computer skills, and the English language--subjects the youths themselves said they wanted to learn. But they rebelled against having to attend classes. One of the younger boys explained: "At first I had a culture shock when we had so many rules in the camp." |
![]() A young team member at Quinipet, Shelter Island, New York. |
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Although computer skills and formal English classes were dropped, the kids did participate in conflict-resolution activities at the Peace Camp for three hours every day. One exercise was to ask the kids all of their associations with the word conflict. Their answers included these words: bloody, border, globe, cruelty, war, violence, grief, motherland, homicide, fighting, destruction, explosion, ball, weapons, understanding, toys, agreement, nature, and peace. Then the youths were taught Tai Chi, an ancient Chinese martial art and meditative practice. They learned that in Tai Chi, ideas like conflict and harmony that seemed to be opposites could reside together. The kids then wrote their words on a line, with conflict and harmony at either end of the continuum. "They discovered that conflict can be related to growth," Anna explained. "It can be both a positive force and a negative one." Anna described an icebreaker that became a favorite way to start each day. Knowing that in their culture people enjoy long and eloquent toasts, the counselors suggested the kids say: "Let's toast for...." Some of the daily toasts were to new beginnings, creativity, awareness, affirmation, and emotions. On this particular day, about five of the boys spent their rest period after lunch roughhousing. Playful pushing led to throwing punches, shoving, and wrestling. A male counselor observed that this was typical male teen behavior. But this fighting was clearly troublesome. The fighting and fooling around was a continual source of discussion among the campers and counselors. On the day of my visit, a counselor had to separate the boys and talk to them about their behavior. Learning to Work TogetherA few days before my visit, money was stolen from two of the campers. The issue of theft arises at any camp anywhere. However, building trust was a fundamental principle at the Peace Camp. Though the money was not returned, on the day of my visit the kids and counselors had a long talk about theft, respect, and trust. This was why the kids visited the underground cave at Epworth. The cave visit was what Terry Murray, a guide for the CCRC, called adventure-based learning. "It's not enough to know the concepts," Terry said. "The real test is when the problem is difficult. How do we learn to trust and cooperate? That's the heart of the camp." The previous afternoon the kids took a ropes course. They had either to climb the ropes alone or to spot each other from the ground. When asked on the afternoon of my visit what they learned on the ropes course, the kids shouted out: "How to take care of each other"..."How to save each other"..."To be creative"..."We need to trust"..."Mutual understanding"...and "To solve our problems." Terry commented that this active approach to problem solving is powerful. Taking risks emotionally and physically and then reflecting on the experience later often results in growth. Adventure-based learning appeared to bring abstract concepts to life. By the end of the month, Rui-Ling reported that a sense of unity eventually prevailed. "We worked together harmoniously and creatively," she said. The kids completed tasks, anticipated problems, and solved problems together. She cited team scavenger hunts as an example of kids' practicing skills and working together across regional lines. Conflict ResolutionRui-Ling and Anna feared for the lives of the children when they returned home. They wondered what having attended a camp with the enemy would mean to them. On one of the last days of camp, Rui-Ling said: "We've been told by more than three of the teens that they don't want to go home." Anna added: "When they go back, the conflict is deep-rooted. Everything is black or white." One of the concepts studied in peace class was gray thinking--to view situations as complex and not to rush to judgments of right and wrong, good and bad. |
AbkhaziaAbkhazia is a region of Georgia that was an autonomous republic within Georgia during Soviet rule. In the late 1980s, when Mikhail Gorbachev, then president of the Soviet Union, formed the policy of glastnost, (openness), nationalist movements grew. In 1991, Georgia became the first republic to secede from the Soviet Union. Though ethnic Abkhazians were always a minority in Abkhazia, where ethnic Georgians were in the majority, the Abkhazians started a civil war in 1992, proclaiming Abkhazia a sovereign state. In 1992, Eduard Sheverdnadze, a native son of Georgia, was dispatched to the Georgia-Abkhazia region along the Black Sea to restore stability. In 1993, with Russian backing, the Abkhaz forces defeated the Georgian military. Since then, hundreds of thousands of ethnic Georgians have been expelled from Abkhazia. In 1994, Georgia became a member of the Commonwealth of Independent States (CIS). The CIS currently supports Georgia in the conflict, pressuring Abkhazia to rejoin Georgia by providing peacekeeping forces for the region and instituting blockades against the Abkhazians. Talks on the status of Abkhazia and its autonomy within Georgia remain deadlocked, and many Georgian refugees who wish to return to the Abkhaz region remain displaced. For a story about UMCOR's ministry with internally displaced youth in Georgia, see New World Outlook, March-April 1999, 26-29. |
Sasha Makeev, a 15-year-old from Abkhazia, said: "I didn't know very much about conflict resolution. Now I know I don't have to be an enemy. I always knew that conflict could be resolved through nonviolent means, but I didn't know there were actual techniques and tools." Priscilla Prutzman, who cofounded the CCRC and coauthored a book, The Friendly Classroom for the Small Planet, explained the purpose of the Peace Camp. "We give them tools for when they go back--to give up some of their armor, to discuss the things they've seen. How will they handle people who want to know what the other side is like?" Perhaps they will convey the CCRC's message: that the enemy has a human face and goodness resides within. Perhaps it is members of the next generation--kids like Sasha and the other teens who visited the Peace Camp--who will bring peace to their troubled region. Mary Beth Coudal is a writer and performer who lives in New York City and often serves as a consultant to the General Board of Global Ministries. Text and photographs copyright 1999 by New World Outlook: The Mission Magazine of The United Methodist Church. Used by Permission. Visit New World Outlook Online at http://gbgm-umc.org/nwo/. For reprint permission, contact New World Outlook by E-mail at nwo@gbgm-umc.org. Next Article: Restorative Justice and India's Caste System |
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